Professional Coaching you can trust to guide you through the changes you need to make
A fulfilled and contented life means expressing ourselves through great relationships in love, in work and in developing deep spiritual connections. All these are fundamental to our wellbeing.
True transformative change happens from the inside out, by changing our personal perspective and challenging our beliefs so we can be released into a new experience of creativity, fearlessly taking on challenges and producing results that once we never thought possible.
I am a full time professional psychotherapist, life coach and change agent with almost 20 years experience in helping clients to navigate challenges and create transformational results for their lives.
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Understanding Love Relationships from the Inside-out
I have experienced love relationship breakups that have happened to me as well as others that I have instigated. When it happens to us, going through that fear that we will never get over the pain and loss, let alone the financial implications can be devastating. On the other hand, when we know time’s up and we have to move on, that too is full of blame and shame. So, if you if you are going into the trauma of breakup I can help you to manage the emotions, the misunderstandings, loneliness and isolation without judgment. I can helps you with planning your next move, financial and practical - where you will live, what happens with the kids, and what will other people think? There is so much to consider and when you are emotionally all over the place, it will be good to have someone there who understands. This will be a confidential mentoring relationship based on trust with the aim of bringing an element of peace for you in uncertain times.
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Understanding Work Relationships from the Inside-out
During my fifty years in work I experienced great relationships that created stability and others that were so difficult that it seemed no matter what I did I just couldn’t connect with that other person and in the worst case of bullying I almost had to leave a job I loved. If you are in that situation where you think you need to change career because of a bully-boss please get in touch and we can explore ways to better understand what is going on. I have helped many clients save time and expense by staying put when a bully-boss is making their life hell. Insecure people can do that but why should their insecurity ruin your career? Let’s look at the options before you leap to conclusions and if you need to make the move, then we can work through the options together before you make that decision. Changes in personal perception are more permenant than moving away from a toxic situation - and can be better in the longer term for building resilience.
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Understanding Spiritual Relationships from the Inside-out
In 1964 I discovered the Beatles and my spiritual search for the meaning of life began. Through seeking wisdom in writings, music and meditation, with a nod to the Moody Blues and Pink Floyd I experienced expanded consciousness without ever taking drugs. In 1988 I had what is called an epiphany and an encounter with the deeply spiritual aspect of the human experience in a very personal way, This started a series of events in life that to this day I cannot explain but following this I started experiencing what I would previously have called co-incidences and events which to this day astound me. When I qualified as a hypnotherapist in 2009 I began to follow alternative spirituality and learned about the path to enlightenment. I’ve written a book about this experience. I provide non-judgmental spiritual mentoring if you are seeking your truth and want to experience the wisdom available to us all for yourself.
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Networking from the Inside-out
Networking is something ae all do, whether we realise it or not. Looking for connections, in love, work and spiritual encounters. But what if we could explore a completely different type of networking for business or for connecting to people who share our vision and mission in life? The Inside-out understanding shows us that all humans see the world differently from our own perspective which we believe to be the right way and we seldom give others th true opportunity they deserve to show us what their personal reality looks, sounds and feels like. So when we engage in deep listening we find that we connect with the true essence of the other person, deeper than the ego and deeper than any agenda that might be on the table. Insights follow when we are less stressed by the need to perform or present a ‘false’ needy front. Networking from a place of knowing who you are rather than just what you do is charismatic and attractive and thyt must increase self-confidence as you start your best life ever!
Why “Mentoring for Life” and how is this approach different from life coaching?
In the realm of guidance, the distinction between mentoring and coaching lies in the mentor's firsthand experience. Unlike coaching, where the focus is often on skill development and goal attainment, mentoring involves a guide who has traversed the very challenges their clients face. As the author of "An Inside-Out Revelation" and the founding psychotherapist at "Mentoring for Life," I bring a wealth of personal experience to the table. My mentoring extends to various facets of life, including navigating career transitions, addressing physical and mental health struggles, and guiding individuals through the complexities of love relationship breakdowns and recovery. Drawing from my own journey, I offer insights, empathy, and practical strategies to those seeking assistance. This dynamic of shared experience creates a unique bond between mentor and mentee, fostering a profound understanding that goes beyond theoretical knowledge. In essence, my mentoring approach is rooted in a genuine connection forged through having walked the path of transformation and recovery.
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