Are you struggling with communication with your loved one or on the verge of giving up, talk with me first. I have experienced love relationship breakups so as a professional psychotherapist I was keen to understand the issues that affect couples. When it happens to us, going through that fear that we will never get over the pain and loss, let alone the financial implications can be devastating. On the other hand, when we know that time’s up and we have no choice but to move on, that too can be full of blame and shame. So, if you are entering or already in the trauma of breakup I can help you to manage the difficult emotions, the misunderstandings, loneliness and isolation without judgment. I can helps you with planning your next move, financial and practical - where you will live, what happens with the kids, and what will other people think? There is so much to consider and when you are emotionally all over the place, it will be good to have someone there who understands. This will be a confidential mentoring relationship based on trust with the aim of bringing an element of peace for you in uncertain times.

If you are struggling with a toxic situation at work I can help you to diffuse the situation through understanding personalities. During my fifty years in work I experienced great relationships that created stability and others that were so difficult that it seemed no matter what I did I just couldn’t connect with that other person and in the worst case of bullying I almost had to leave a job I loved. If you are in that situation where you think you need to change career because of a bully-boss please get in touch and we can explore ways to better understand what is going on. I have helped many clients save time and expense by staying put when a bully-boss is making their life hell. Insecure people can do that but why should their insecurity ruin your career? Let’s look at the options before you leap to conclusions and if you need to make the move, then we can work through the options together before you make that decision. Changes in personal perception are more permanent than running away from a toxic situation - and can be better in the longer term for building your resilience.

I’m not addressing religion here, but exploring the spiritual aspect of the human experience. In 1964 I discovered the Beatles and my spiritual search for the meaning of life began. Through seeking wisdom in writings, music and meditation, with a nod to the Moody Blues and Pink Floyd I experienced expanded consciousness without ever taking drugs. In 1988 I had what is called an epiphany and an encounter with the deeply spiritual aspect of the human experience in a very personal way, This started a series of events in life that to this day I cannot explain but following this I started experiencing what I would previously have called co-incidences and events which to this day astound me. When I qualified as a hypnotherapist in 2009 I began to follow alternative spirituality and learned about the path to enlightenment. I’ve written a book about this experience. I provide non-judgmental spiritual mentoring if you are seeking your truth and want to experience the deeper wisdom of intelligence available to us all for yourself.

Networking is something we all do, whether we realise it or not. Connections are vital in life. Looking for the right connections, in love, work and spiritual encounters. But what if we could explore a completely different type of networking for business or for connecting to people who share our vision and mission in life? We all see the world differently, from our own perspective which we believe to be the right way and we seldom give others the true opportunity they deserve to show us what their personal reality looks, sounds and feels like. So when we engage in the skill of deep listening we find that we connect with the true essence of the other person, deeper than the appearance and the business they represent and deeper than any agenda that might be on the table. Insights follow when we are less stressed by the need to perform or present a ‘false’ needy front. Networking from a place of knowing who you are rather than just what you do is charismatic and attractive and this must increase self-confidence.